In the beginning
In the beginning both genders have gone through many things in every way both emotional , physiological in many situations , issues both in dating & relationships, if all things go well to where they more then get along emotionally , more then eventually comes marriage.
Then when the marriage goes in to effect then over the course of days , weeks , years / time things do tend to go positive , strong , long lasting , at other times even in today's day , age things do go wrong in many ways as well.
Many have lasted for 60 to 50 . 40 , 30 years , many others do try to reach that if not surpass that.
And due to many other things that do at times more then tend to happen for various reasons but none of them are logical . realistic or reasonable, forgive-able, one of many of them has more then one wording for the one thing in what is not right to do to any one no matter who you are , no matter what gender you are.
In fact religiously, spiritually it is called/ considered a sin, that one word that is also seen as an action is cheating that same word , action is also known as Adultery , its also known as infidelity.
Either way that it is said or called , seen as it is still not positive at all, it is one of many that ends not only relationships , marriages.
It can also effect us emotionally , medically.
We are not immortal or invincible in any way shape or form , what have you else....
It does not matter how long either gender has been with the other.
If you are with one person be that if you are a man , you are with a woman , or if you are a woman in a relationship with a man , you have promised one another to be with that one person be that again each other , no other person no matter what then both male , female genders must stay with that one person, if there is any emotional or physiological there are better way then to deceive lie , cheat on one another or on the other.
I know that with today's , fast pace world , lives that we all lead we are still human beings with not only emotions , feelings, wants , needs , desires, urges , more in what at times if not more then so tend to tie in with a hormonal basis.
Even though we have all those with in us no matter how we view things, no matter how many times we so called tend to forget things even those that we have promised another or any other thing that ties in with that it still is no reason to cheat / commit adultery on one another or the other person,
If you do that what is wrong then that shows many people as well as yourself if you take the time to look at it , with in yourself you will see also by doing that of what is wrong when you are already with another you will see that you are not really ready for a serious / long lasting relationship with anyone no matter how much you love , want to be with anyone that you are with on either side of the table being no matter what gender you are & of what gender that you are with be that if you are again a male with a female or if you are a female with a male.
Before you start a relationship with a man or a woman you must first be true , honest , have confidence with in yourself , also in order to trust , have faith in one person you must have trust , faith with in yourself to where you have faith in yourself , that you trust yourself , with that if you are to really love another you must first really love yourself.
It is very easy to say that you have all of those for , with in yourself but you must take the time really , honestly take the time to look with in yourself , there may be times that you will find that you don't have those or simply can not find them with in you that does not mean that you are no human in any way at all.
If one can not yet at any given point or time or both can not find that of what was said earlier it is a normal thing , it just simply means that you need to spend more time with yourself before you start/ go in to a relationship with anyone at any given point , time.
If you go in to a relationship with another , you say all the positive emotional things to them ,at that same point , time that you do not truly feel that with in yourself for yourself then you are not being true to them as well as yourself in any way at all no matter what you may say or think.
That can lead to many things starting with divorce if it goes further then a boy friend girlfriend.
And that can be not only emotionally painful / hurtful to the woman but it is equally as emotionally painful to the male as well.
And yes it is true that women are more in tune / in touch with their emotions , feelings but that does not dis clued the fact that a man has emotions , feelings , is also a human being.
I know that with the basis of society, the mind set that it has set for both genders like for example:
For Males: A man must be strong tough confidant take charge of things , more, the man must not show his true emotions , feelings how sensitive they are because that is a sign of weakness.
For Females: A woman must be in tune with their emotions , feelings ,sensitive, more.
That simply is the wrong way of viewing the genders , training them to be as such in what has been done for many centuries.
With that the female gender has been said to be viewed as inferior / the weaker of the two genders.
That is a wrong way to view treat any of the two genders ,the reason is that in all reality we both have our weaknesses,strong points with in us all no matter the gender.
That mind set has also made it tougher for the female gender even when many guys have viewed , treated them as sex objects , piece of meat , a sex toy to where many women eventually feel that is all that they are good for, put on this planet for, more.
That leads to where the woman feels used , unwanted , not really needed ,respected , loved , cared for ,more in what eventually leads to depression with in the woman.
But since the late 80's to early 90's it has been seen , said that the woman is playing the same emotional game if you will in what the ,ale has done to them for many years starting from the 1970's if not earlier then that in what they would view of it being their way of getting back at the male gender even with the fact that there are those males that would not do that of what other men have done to many women, many that do that do more then tend to ignore that fact , reality of it , just go with doing that of what they know with in themselves is wrong yet with even that aspect , fact many do not seem to care because they do not see that guys / any part of the male gender care about when they did it to the woman / female gender.
With that there has been many derogatory type wording/ sayings about both the male , female genders.
And mostly due to the emotional , physiological pain that both genders more then tend to carry with them even after they have gotten over the emotional pain ,many more then tend to deny that fact when they know that they have said the derogatory words, that they still in some way carry that hurt with them still , have not yet fully gotten over it all in what is normal but by saying the derogatory words dose not make them feel any better , it does not make things in general better at all, with that it more then tends to bring back the reminder of the emotional pain , that is not good either but feeling the emotional pain part of it all is still normal,
That is one of many things that is part of being human as well are many other things also.
I know that what many guys have done to many women is wrong , not justified in any way , for any reason no matter what but many of those same women that do that very same thing that many men have done to the female gender must really take the time to really , honestly ask themselves , think : Do I really want to keep doing this even though it was , has been done to me as well as many other females even before me or do I want to change things by doing better for not only myself but our future , many other women may soon follow in what can , will be seen as an action better then what men have done it what would put the female gender in the positive light both emotional , realistic, more , many can choose to see it as an action that is better then the male gender in all -Or do I want to keep doing this of what I am doing in the sense of emotional revenge against the male gender there by not help make things better for either side / gender even for the future besides myself?
Both for the woman , their future , the future of our youth I'd hope that they would follow the right path in what leads to not go to the points of revenge against the males ,if the male dose that very thing that is realistically , emotionally , morally, spiritually wrong to do to any woman that the woman would simply leave or if the woman is married that shed divorce the man that did / has done them wrong by cheating on them to start..
No matter what the reasons are or might be do we want to instill that of what is negative , wrong emotionally , morally , realistically , spiritually in our youth just because,of what was done to us both male , female , due to society it is the way things must be or can we do better then what society has trained each gender over the course of time, more where we can change things for he better , not the worst where it can be viewed as societies views have changed to where many things are in the emotionally positive light?
Do note: That when , if the female gender does not go down the metaphorical path way that is better then what the males have gone down in how ever many years starting from the past to now to start with then with that instill in our youth of the the right way to be , go about many things starting with relationships, many other things in a positive emotional , physiological way / manor then as our youth grow in to adulthood as it is called then we could eventually see the positive happen sooner then what we may even say , think even at this very point , time , present...
With all that the male gender of today's day , age may follow the positive way of those males that do not do the women / female gender wrong in any way.
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In today's day , age there are still females that would not do anything wrong to many males in the same way.
And yes there are many males that would not do any thing wrong to any woman both emotionally ,physiologically , moral;y , spiritually , physically to start, the same is true about the female gender as well.
Not one female can say that there are no females that would ever do a man wrong in any way , the reason I say that is that many have seen , felt the emotional impact , so has this writer.
With that the way that thing as they were , are at even this present year , time , more will soon be no more. it will gradually be passed on to many other generations of youth.
Eventually it would change the viewing of all that live in this country , planet , what would also span to other countries as well in what would be seen as the way that society will then view it as.
I know that the second part may not happen in our life time of where it would span to other countries , cultures , more but this writer has always believed in having faith , belief , many other positive things both emotional ,physiological.
And I hope even after many that have or are reading this that they will eventually see that it is more then possible to have help it happen in their own way.
Links to the other Relationship blogs below here.
Common Misconceptions
http://www.societyreality.blogspot.com/2012/10/common-misconception.html
Finding the one ( Blog )
http://www.societyreality.blogspot.com/2012/10/finding-one.html
In the beginning both genders have gone through many things in every way both emotional , physiological in many situations , issues both in dating & relationships, if all things go well to where they more then get along emotionally , more then eventually comes marriage.
Then when the marriage goes in to effect then over the course of days , weeks , years / time things do tend to go positive , strong , long lasting , at other times even in today's day , age things do go wrong in many ways as well.
Many have lasted for 60 to 50 . 40 , 30 years , many others do try to reach that if not surpass that.
And due to many other things that do at times more then tend to happen for various reasons but none of them are logical . realistic or reasonable, forgive-able, one of many of them has more then one wording for the one thing in what is not right to do to any one no matter who you are , no matter what gender you are.
In fact religiously, spiritually it is called/ considered a sin, that one word that is also seen as an action is cheating that same word , action is also known as Adultery , its also known as infidelity.
Either way that it is said or called , seen as it is still not positive at all, it is one of many that ends not only relationships , marriages.
It can also effect us emotionally , medically.
We are not immortal or invincible in any way shape or form , what have you else....
It does not matter how long either gender has been with the other.
If you are with one person be that if you are a man , you are with a woman , or if you are a woman in a relationship with a man , you have promised one another to be with that one person be that again each other , no other person no matter what then both male , female genders must stay with that one person, if there is any emotional or physiological there are better way then to deceive lie , cheat on one another or on the other.
I know that with today's , fast pace world , lives that we all lead we are still human beings with not only emotions , feelings, wants , needs , desires, urges , more in what at times if not more then so tend to tie in with a hormonal basis.
Even though we have all those with in us no matter how we view things, no matter how many times we so called tend to forget things even those that we have promised another or any other thing that ties in with that it still is no reason to cheat / commit adultery on one another or the other person,
If you do that what is wrong then that shows many people as well as yourself if you take the time to look at it , with in yourself you will see also by doing that of what is wrong when you are already with another you will see that you are not really ready for a serious / long lasting relationship with anyone no matter how much you love , want to be with anyone that you are with on either side of the table being no matter what gender you are & of what gender that you are with be that if you are again a male with a female or if you are a female with a male.
Before you start a relationship with a man or a woman you must first be true , honest , have confidence with in yourself , also in order to trust , have faith in one person you must have trust , faith with in yourself to where you have faith in yourself , that you trust yourself , with that if you are to really love another you must first really love yourself.
It is very easy to say that you have all of those for , with in yourself but you must take the time really , honestly take the time to look with in yourself , there may be times that you will find that you don't have those or simply can not find them with in you that does not mean that you are no human in any way at all.
If one can not yet at any given point or time or both can not find that of what was said earlier it is a normal thing , it just simply means that you need to spend more time with yourself before you start/ go in to a relationship with anyone at any given point , time.
If you go in to a relationship with another , you say all the positive emotional things to them ,at that same point , time that you do not truly feel that with in yourself for yourself then you are not being true to them as well as yourself in any way at all no matter what you may say or think.
That can lead to many things starting with divorce if it goes further then a boy friend girlfriend.
And that can be not only emotionally painful / hurtful to the woman but it is equally as emotionally painful to the male as well.
And yes it is true that women are more in tune / in touch with their emotions , feelings but that does not dis clued the fact that a man has emotions , feelings , is also a human being.
I know that with the basis of society, the mind set that it has set for both genders like for example:
For Males: A man must be strong tough confidant take charge of things , more, the man must not show his true emotions , feelings how sensitive they are because that is a sign of weakness.
For Females: A woman must be in tune with their emotions , feelings ,sensitive, more.
That simply is the wrong way of viewing the genders , training them to be as such in what has been done for many centuries.
With that the female gender has been said to be viewed as inferior / the weaker of the two genders.
That is a wrong way to view treat any of the two genders ,the reason is that in all reality we both have our weaknesses,strong points with in us all no matter the gender.
That mind set has also made it tougher for the female gender even when many guys have viewed , treated them as sex objects , piece of meat , a sex toy to where many women eventually feel that is all that they are good for, put on this planet for, more.
That leads to where the woman feels used , unwanted , not really needed ,respected , loved , cared for ,more in what eventually leads to depression with in the woman.
But since the late 80's to early 90's it has been seen , said that the woman is playing the same emotional game if you will in what the ,ale has done to them for many years starting from the 1970's if not earlier then that in what they would view of it being their way of getting back at the male gender even with the fact that there are those males that would not do that of what other men have done to many women, many that do that do more then tend to ignore that fact , reality of it , just go with doing that of what they know with in themselves is wrong yet with even that aspect , fact many do not seem to care because they do not see that guys / any part of the male gender care about when they did it to the woman / female gender.
With that there has been many derogatory type wording/ sayings about both the male , female genders.
And mostly due to the emotional , physiological pain that both genders more then tend to carry with them even after they have gotten over the emotional pain ,many more then tend to deny that fact when they know that they have said the derogatory words, that they still in some way carry that hurt with them still , have not yet fully gotten over it all in what is normal but by saying the derogatory words dose not make them feel any better , it does not make things in general better at all, with that it more then tends to bring back the reminder of the emotional pain , that is not good either but feeling the emotional pain part of it all is still normal,
That is one of many things that is part of being human as well are many other things also.
I know that what many guys have done to many women is wrong , not justified in any way , for any reason no matter what but many of those same women that do that very same thing that many men have done to the female gender must really take the time to really , honestly ask themselves , think : Do I really want to keep doing this even though it was , has been done to me as well as many other females even before me or do I want to change things by doing better for not only myself but our future , many other women may soon follow in what can , will be seen as an action better then what men have done it what would put the female gender in the positive light both emotional , realistic, more , many can choose to see it as an action that is better then the male gender in all -Or do I want to keep doing this of what I am doing in the sense of emotional revenge against the male gender there by not help make things better for either side / gender even for the future besides myself?
Both for the woman , their future , the future of our youth I'd hope that they would follow the right path in what leads to not go to the points of revenge against the males ,if the male dose that very thing that is realistically , emotionally , morally, spiritually wrong to do to any woman that the woman would simply leave or if the woman is married that shed divorce the man that did / has done them wrong by cheating on them to start..
No matter what the reasons are or might be do we want to instill that of what is negative , wrong emotionally , morally , realistically , spiritually in our youth just because,of what was done to us both male , female , due to society it is the way things must be or can we do better then what society has trained each gender over the course of time, more where we can change things for he better , not the worst where it can be viewed as societies views have changed to where many things are in the emotionally positive light?
Do note: That when , if the female gender does not go down the metaphorical path way that is better then what the males have gone down in how ever many years starting from the past to now to start with then with that instill in our youth of the the right way to be , go about many things starting with relationships, many other things in a positive emotional , physiological way / manor then as our youth grow in to adulthood as it is called then we could eventually see the positive happen sooner then what we may even say , think even at this very point , time , present...
With all that the male gender of today's day , age may follow the positive way of those males that do not do the women / female gender wrong in any way.
\
In today's day , age there are still females that would not do anything wrong to many males in the same way.
And yes there are many males that would not do any thing wrong to any woman both emotionally ,physiologically , moral;y , spiritually , physically to start, the same is true about the female gender as well.
Not one female can say that there are no females that would ever do a man wrong in any way , the reason I say that is that many have seen , felt the emotional impact , so has this writer.
With that the way that thing as they were , are at even this present year , time , more will soon be no more. it will gradually be passed on to many other generations of youth.
Eventually it would change the viewing of all that live in this country , planet , what would also span to other countries as well in what would be seen as the way that society will then view it as.
I know that the second part may not happen in our life time of where it would span to other countries , cultures , more but this writer has always believed in having faith , belief , many other positive things both emotional ,physiological.
And I hope even after many that have or are reading this that they will eventually see that it is more then possible to have help it happen in their own way.
Links to the other Relationship blogs below here.
Common Misconceptions
http://www.societyreality.blogspot.com/2012/10/common-misconception.html
Finding the one ( Blog )
http://www.societyreality.blogspot.com/2012/10/finding-one.html
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